So can we hash out a plan for the next 40 days then?

I have NOT pursued for about 7 weeks now, and have GAL, and have new friends, took responsibility for the house ect.

These 40 days are going to be TOUGH. But I want to look back and say I TRIED EVERYTHING POSSIBLE.

I can survive divorce. But that is like saying I could survive a plane crash, even though I could have made a heroic attempt to land the plane and AVOID a crash.

I want to go as hard as you and Puppy did. I know this is about ME, but I want to do the BEST ME WORK I POSSIBLY CAN. If that makes her pause, GREAT, if not I will be MORE THAN READY to walk in that courtroom and SHOW her how fine I will be, and how I didn't self destruct.

I am going skydiving, which TOTALLY threw her for a loop. I am having a house party in Aug. And I am planning to be out every night for the 2 weeks straight she is home in Aug before she goes away for 3 weeks.

She is just keeping up the pressure on selling the house. I am just ignoring her on it, but EVENTUALLY I am going to have to make a decision.

And I need an AWESOME NEW JOB to do that. That has to be priority 1. But can we figure out a Hellbent plan to help me come out of this NO MATTER the outcome when she moves out?


Me - 32
Her -30
Married - 7 Years
Together - 9 Years
No Kids
05/21 - Bomb
6/8 - Exposed
7/9 - Re-Exposed
06/11 - She Filed