Your emotions are in your right hand side... just stay OUT of there for a while and you will get centered a lot more quickly...
Truth darts aren't pursuing when you don't care about the reaction.
I said what I did because it was the truth, not because I thought it would change her mind.
After many MANY months of that, I did start to notice a lot of uncertainty and confusion in her...
I really think your best strategy is to buy that house outright and live there well...
I am biased though, I hate apartments... Lived in them for a long time and a house just can't be beat.. a property you actually OWN...
If you do end up staying there you will just end up showing her what she walked out on... turn the place into a palace.
The best way to beat her vendictive nature QS is to live well. Live well and long.
Think tortois and the hare for you in this situation... She can play the cocky rabbit who parades around and makes fun of the turtle moving along inch by inch... While the rabbit goofs off and acts like a fool...
