Separated, MLC and Infidelity - with kids

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Just a couple new things. Today was my day with DD’s, and I did not instigate any contact. She must of got bored and/or curious and started TM me about 11 am. I kept all answers very short, and made sure they invited no replies. She sent quite a few throughout the day, enough that I got tired of replying. I’m thinking of just going to a no TM format with her. It might piss her off, but she is using TM to make sure she doesn’t talk to me. Then again, maybe it’s best I leave it like it is, and keep doing my thing, and leave her to be the curious one. Or a hybrid, where I only answer a few of them? I don’t know - input welcome.

Also got a new IC. I go to a very large church, and their member services gave me a few names. I asked them for someone who was a Christian(all were, lol), and one that was very pro-marriage(again, big surprise all were), but the one they recommended I saw today, and looks to be a very knowledgeable man. I’m going to see him next week also, he says he has helped a lot of people through this journey, and has a very mannerism about him. He believes in standing, to a healthy point, and a very faith based outlook.