Cry a river, build a bridge, and get over it

[ImprovedRomeo]

Here's her response:


There is really no way I can come over with movers and pack little things at the same time they are supposed to be moving. It just doesnt' work that way. So either I can come over and pack the little things and have the movers get them with the furniture, that might work better. I will make sure to get some boxes to use and let me know when I can come over to pack little things. Then after I know how many boxes I will call the movers. They will come over and pick up the stuff and I don't need to be there, I'll just wait for it at my house since I'll probably have DD.

I'm fine with having a small dinner or lunch with DD on her bday along with some cake. Either you can buy something or I can make it, doesn't matter. Just let me know what time and where you want to meet. If you want to drop her off on Sunday to spend the day/night with me, that works for me too.

I am still having a party for her but it might also be a good idea to have a school party too. She always likes that.

You can remove me from your healthcare plan when the divorce is finalized. You will be able to make the change at any time outside of enrollment period as it's considered a qualifying event.

Sure on the co-parenting thing. We can try her.

Please don't forget to call the water company to put your name on the bill. They said they have to shut off the water and get a turn on notice. They are open 7-4 and the number is xxx and I told them to wait a few days to let you call in.