I am not the way I should be, lets put it that way. I know you guys will say, you need to do it the right way, or things will not work. I am still working on this and will need several kicks in the @ss obviously. I did speak with my sis in Denver, who is a psych major who believes the W detaches by trying to be the adult and thinks there is nothing wrong with her which is why she goes off on me. Saying that I am the one with all the problems. Sis says until W gets back to reality(if she ever will) you will be stuck at home and miserable. Again my family is telling me to file and be done, they dont think I deserve this. So wishy washy in my head, which i need to go shave and take a shower. I will check back from my crackberry when I crawl into bed.