You really gave it your all and you never let pride stand in the way of your love for your H or family. Your H knows that, rest assured. He either cannot or will not admit it at this time.
A friend of mine was divorced in circumstances involving infidelity on her H's part. A few years later he told her " I should never have treated you like that. You are a very good woman and never deserved what I did." He is in his third post divorce relationship. The one that his M broke up over didn't last for five minutes. His current R is on Rocky Road as well. She has moved on. There comes a point when they have to help themselves. I hope your H does not have to live a life like my friend's H. That is a sad life.
