Thanks Rob, As soon as she walked in I was walking out. I didn't say much to her other than I didn't unload the dishwasher. She says "are you not talking to me" I simply replied you knew I wanted to go to a meeting and you are late, I have to go. I left it at that. When the trip comes up in conversation I will say exactly what you recommend to say. I think you are starting to see what I mean about her extreme hot and cold back and forth. I do post a lot as to get advice but also as my way of journaling and venting. She also stated in her email, to focus on me and my issues. I need to keep focused, after that email I will make it a point not to talk to her family anymore as well. She made refernence to talking to her aunt is not ok if we talk about us. So my guess is auntie brought "us" up to W and that sparked the email. Glad this is all happening in the beginning to get it out of the way now rather than later. I was debating bringing my computer to the bedroom since I work on things late and it will be going somewhat dark and a little mysterious, any thoughts?
