OK.

This is partly out of humour Sunny, but there is some good points in SkyJohn's video here.

Warning. This guy is NOT a family therapist, and he can be quite crude. This is mostly for humour's sake, but he is good at dishing out the 2 x 4 :

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M7enaSyMBxE

I laughed my butt off the first time I saw it, but after watching it again I think he has some good points here.. particularly about not needing evidence. Your discussion here on evidence is what reminded me of Sky's video.

Enjoy smile