After Exposure - Keep It Going

[Quicksilver264]

Each time I snuck a truth dart or two in there.. Reality chipped away at the thing...

Isn't that pursuing? Like if I throw truth darts in there, she is just going to run to her mom and friends and say "He's insane", "He won't let go", yada yada yada. Then she gets reinforcement from them.

Like when you told me to say something about my honoring my vows ect, she texted her friend who replied "You CANNOT reason with INSANITY".

Like you and I said, she is in auto destruct mode. And is SUCKS that this is going to lead her down a path of meaningless sex, a 1 year lease, a potentially committed but unhealthy relationship ect.

And what sucks the most is that she might have a BOYFRIEND, like I will have to hear about "My boyfriend" ect. Even though is may be unhealthy as ALL HELL, you know she is going to front it like it's the BEST thing in the world.

And as stubborn as she is, she just might stay in it to prove a point that she is desirable and can make a "relationship" work.

I think I need to come up with a CONCRETE PLAN, from now until Labor day when she moves out. Come up with some hard0hitting DB tactics for me, and stock my arsenal with truth darts and just chip away until I can no longer do it.

And I LOVE the idea about getting in my left brain. I AM going to do that - try to become Mr. Spock or DATA, and I will be MUCH better at working this.