In hindsight I really don't know... I know if i Had to do that again I wouldn't pull nearly as many punches as I did the first time.

In my case I knew what she was doing and I spoke up almost daily and we fought several days each week. Each time I snuck a truth dart or two in there.. Reality chipped away at the thing...

I kept in my logic head too... I did a lot of logical stuff, math, strategy games, solved the rubix cube... you name it I did it... get into your left brain and you are safe there man.