21 years of marriage hanging by a thread

[Chuck66]

For the longest time it was just the kids she was shunning. So it was, "It's not you, it's the kids" that she couldnt deal with. Once I started digging for an OM it changed to "It's not you its me."

I have these two definitions bookmarked. You will like them both.

You'll have to cut and paste the first one.

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=it's+not+you,+it's+me



http://www.helium.com/items/820992-its-not-you-its-me-common-excuses-for-breaking-up