Originally Posted By: Allen A
Sunny just say "I paid, we are going."

and you can add "I already told the kids..."

Note : I didn't say WHAT was told to them... so this is going to put him on the defensive.. He's going to be thinking


OK... What in the HELL does she KNOW...?

What do the kids know?

uh oh... $hit...




I didn't see this in time to add the "told the kids" part but if he replies back I'll work it in there.

Speaking of kids...my 16 year old told me he is very mad and upset with H. Said he wants to tell him off. He even sent me a 2nd text saying, "If he gets physical or won't leave and you want him to... let me know. I'm bigger and stronger and I got this!" I have to say, I teared up when I read that. My 16 year old son should not have to think this way about his father. Son is 6'2 1/2 and 265 lbs. H is not nearly as big. lol

I explained to S that H has never gotten physical and there may come a time to speak his mind, but now is not it. If he refuses to go to the weekend afterall, and won't make other changes, THEN will be the time. To pray for the man - the real H - that we all know and love.