I think emotionally stable means feeling "even" for most days of the week instead of SUPER HAPPY then ANGRY then CONFUSED then SAD then normal, etc...

sorry for t/j Romeo!

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004