I like the title of your thread! I haven't heard that expression before! Yes, the email sounded good- curious to hear how she will respond!

those goals are easy to remember and to the point.
I am still working on being emotionally stable, lol!

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004