if you know there is a light at the end of the tunnel, you can ususally put up with anything.
What if you did not KNOW what was at the end of the tunnel - would you still stand?
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if we remain true to ourselves and our morals and our core being is that of an honestly good human being..then we can't go wrong, no matter how it turns out for us.
Yep! Can you remain true to yourself even when someone else is not?
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My H is my very best friend and I love him with all my heart.
Remember this quote ITay...Remember it.
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
I just stumbled on one of your posts earlier in which you were cheering for the MN Vikings. Wondering if you happen to live in MN now?.....or maybe that was in the past.
Taylor, If you are searching for secretarial positions and are unable to locate a permanent one at this time...try the temp agencies. We use temp agencies quite a bit where I work.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Snodderly speaks the truth. If you live in a bigger metro area, that's the way to get your foot in the door. It's how my son got in with the Honda Corp. 10 years ago, and has been there ever since. No, he's not a car salesman.
Temp agencies also have jobs that fall into Temp to hire.
If you want to get your skills up look for short time jobs of 2-4 weeks gigs, get your speed up to snuff and then look for the temp to hire spots.
Temp agencies also have traiing programs you can build your skills up with as well.
Also...if you are in this f-ing computer tonight you aren't really GALing, your just swimming in misery...yours or in the archieves someone elses...."poor us" get out there and DO something tonight.
Stretch your limits, go to a thrift store or used bookstore. Break your mold.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
GAG..I'm afraid to answer your question under grounds that it may incriminate me. i have already done a pretty good job of that here with my posts all by myself. Sorry so paranoid.
You write VERY well. I read some of your stuff from other threads and wish we could talk..but my H may be watching this forum. I stupidly sent him a link before I started posting.
Hullo Itaylor's husband! Go away...not for you. Honest actually...not for you this is for her and her...hopefully...growth, and if not for you...someone else will reap the benefits of an independant and self assured woman.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
Thank you so much for asking Tay. Wife went further back into tunnel today. Probably my fault. I did not go ballistic or anything just put a few facts out in the open that were designed to see what would happen. Increased confusion from her since I have not been in that arena for her for a while. I think sometimes we want to test the water to see if the alien is still human. If they peek out of the tunnel and too much time seems to go by, it is hard to stay patient so you feel the need to test or poke the alien. They really do have to want to work on themselves. If they don't or won't I think they have to hit rock bottom before the monster is dead. Then maybe they will pick themselves up in desperation. It does not appear my wife will hit rock bottom anytime soon. The words that come out of her are not who she was but the rebellious teenager who feels stuck in life in a place she does not belong. I really have admiration for the men and women here who have such a good grasp of MLC they can dig deep for patience. I mean really deep. I know you and I can work on ourselves so no whatever happens, we can be who we want to be and be happy with no regrets. Then like Eric says "one day it does not matter what they say" I feel that way sometimes too and it would be easier without a divorce decree hanging over your head. I can live with an alien who peeks out once a week or so but can the peeking go on for a year or more? I have read that they are 50-75% through when ILYBINILWY. then I am looking at about a year yet. With counseling that can shorten it and she goes once a week. I was optimistic and still will hang in there for a while so we will see how it goes.
