Bear,

I've not had much time to spend here recently...

I just wanted to say - you are doing brilliantly.

What's going on in your marriage and your life now, and the way you describe it, is almost unrecognisable from two years ago.

Keep dropping by - you will inspire further success stories - I'm sure.

S&A


"A man can be destroyed but not defeated" - from The Old Man and the Sea, by Ernest Hemingway.

Which I take to mean that every man has within him a spirit of relentlessness and optimism. Its already there; he just has to cultivate it.