Just be grateful he SOMEWHAT wants to work on the marriage, and isn't sending friends texts that THEY ARE ON "THE MARKET" AGAIN, like my wife is.

Start from that point of perspective (beginner's mind), and alot more should become clear.

Not trying to be harsh AT ALL Sunny, but you have ALOT more to work with than me. I am SOOOOOO pulling for you HARD buddy.

Try not to over-analyze (one of my big faults), and keep your composure.

Me - 32
Her -30
Married - 7 Years
Together - 9 Years
No Kids
05/21 - Bomb
6/8 - Exposed
7/9 - Re-Exposed
06/11 - She Filed