So what if she gets mad, she can't divorce you twice!
Amen!
Follow on thought... It doesn't matter when \ if the divorce process starts, only when it ends. It is easy for the WAW to spout about how they are going to get the D. But once the process starts, it gets tougher for them. They are suddenly faced with stark realities about finances, custody and more.
Take your stand now... don't be offensive to her, but don't be weak either. Set your boundaries and drop the rope just like you have. Get a life and let the chips fall where they may.
My thread, Carpe Diem #4 Orig Thread: Carpe Diem #1