PDT's right. She feels the "void" and wants to fill it with the baby, thinking that everything is going to work itself out when she has a child.
Big no-no. All she's going to do is move further away from you. This happens even in the best of marriages and it's 10 times harder to maintain that closeness with your spouse.
She's going to have to respect your thoughts on this matter.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
