Hey BTM. As long as the W doesnt have to commit to anything, she's in control. By getting a separation agreement, the rules are set and she loses some control. Bravo!

Your W is getting pissed at you for asserting your boundries and this is the the typical response. At this stage, it's not a bad thing. It means you are behaving unexpectedly.

It's your turn to be selfish, brother. Go and enjoy your life, loosen up. Drop the rope. Be mysterious. Nothing can touch you.


Last edited by Sgfan; 07/22/10 08:46 PM.
Formerly SGfan
M:38
W:33
M:8 yrs
T:10 yrs
Bomb: Dec '08
Separated: 4/18/09
Divorce: 8/28/09
XW Affair began: April 08