OH...and don't get me started on the suggestion that we go on a cruise. Do you honestly think he would have jumped to planning a cruise if I would've backed off the marriage weekend plan???? Helll no. I don't think so. It sounded awfully tempting, I will admit. Part of me wonders...hmmm... maybe.... but I have a hard time believing he would've gone or it would've worked to restore feelings, as he said it might.