Same here. WAS lost a bunch of weight and I bought her a new wardrobe while we were "working on it" while she was having an EA and she "just didn't have those feelings for me". I don't believe that she ever worked on it.
Listen to your friends. They are probably right. If you had to do EVERYTHING already, then you don't have much to learn! Realize that she used you. Realize what a mess she is and how really bad for you she was.
Man, you sound like a really good catch. A college professor (Great job by the way, I bet the benefits are GREAT!), earning an advanced degree, who cooks, cleans, golfs and does just about everything. What kind of woman wouldn't want a man like that! You can easily find someone who is willing to at least help you with the chores and will probably do A LOT of work around the house. How good would that be?
You will enjoy being around your next woman too. Women ARE fun to hang out with. Most of them anyway. There are lots of them out there. Another thing to think about - who is your competition for these women? I hear lots of women say that there aren't many good guys out there. You will be one of the few. You are at the top of your game. Who can compete with you? Not many I bet.
Get on match.com, chemistry.com or something like that. Just find a free site for now. You don't even have to date. Just take a look at what is out there. They will send you pics of your matches in your area. I think you may be delighted with what you find. I'm not even D yet, but I've signed up just to look myself. It will improve your outlook.
Look, I am not a lady killer by any means and I am nervous about having to start over myself. I was always scared of women when I was young. But, I got out there and just started talking to people. It's not that hard and it is FUN too. Pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and get back in the game. Rub some dirt on it for Gods sake!
You are still young and probably good looking on top of it! Stop acting like you are dead and please change your post title Think I am FREE now, or Think I am ALIVE now. Or something else positive. It all starts in YOUR head. PMA Baby!