He gets S14's report cards via mail (we both do), but when filling out S10's paperwork they send home at the beginning of every school year, I'm guessing he forgot to "check" the box that requests a copy to be mailed to his residence as well. But anyway, he said he called the school and no one is there. I said keep calling. Sorry, but I'm not going to help him. If a judge has to order me to, fine. I will do it then.
Thanks for the link, Michelle. My mom also went online and printed some stuff out on both BV and Fairmont. On a "greatratings" scale of 1 to 10, BV ranked an 8. Fairmont...a 4.
I had to talk with my son. He sent me a text (from upstairs!) saying he's changed his mind and will go to BV. He doesn't want his father and I to fight and lose money. I'm guessing he heard me venting to my mom . It's really hard to try talking to him and reassuring him that everything is going to be ok when I know he's already worried, to let me and his father deal with this...knowing that he's trying to deal with it all in his head. I can tell him not to worry all I want, but it doesn't mean that he won't.
Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell
. It's really hard to try talking to him and reassuring him that everything is going to be ok when I know he's already worried, to let me and his father deal with this...knowing that he's trying to deal with it all in his head. I can tell him not to worry all I want, but it doesn't mean that he won't. 
