Ugh, Antlers. Those messages she sent you were quite cruel. don't get defensive if and when you do respond to her. Just be cool as a cucumber. As for your son, has he explained to her that he wishes to stay with you at the time?
Hello soleil.
Yep, she's been meaner n' hell ever since she left 19 months ago. No forgiveness in her heart at all! I won't get defensive if I do respond. Yeah, he's made it clear to her that it's his choice to be with me at the time...she won't accept it. It makes her feel better to accuse me of "brainwashing him" and "lying to him" and "destroying the bond betwen them". She won't accept that it's his choice, plain and simple, and I haven't influenced him at all. She refuses to believe that she is at fault for anything whatsoever!
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
