Yes. I understand. I'm not a big smiler at the best of times so it will come across as "warm thought and neutral face"
It's a lot to control but all I can do is try to remain calm and keep my voice slow, calm and relaxed. Low. I tend to raise the pitch when defending or stressing something.
You can listen casually, but I bet my paycheque next week that its' going to be in Puppy's top five list of garbage convo's from teh wayward spouse
Hear a bit, but focus on what YOU have to say... YOU have something that is much more likely to be constructive than SHE does
Give her an ear, but don't put much stock in anything good coming from it...
Kind of like a cop making an arrest.. if the suspect has to say something let him talk (and incriminate himself), but you reading him his rights and throwing on teh cuffs is the purpose of the "talk"
You can listen casually, but I bet my paycheque next week that its' going to be in Puppy's top five list of garbage convo's from teh wayward spouse
Hear a bit, but focus on what YOU have to say... YOU have something that is much more likely to be constructive than SHE does
Give her an ear, but don't put much stock in anything good coming from it...
Kind of like a cop making an arrest.. if the suspect has to say something let him talk (and incriminate himself), but you reading him his rights and throwing on teh cuffs is the purpose of the "talk"
