What needs to happen is she needs to break out of this phase where she's wanting to chase young and irresponsible cock.
That doesn't seem likely right now, or in the reasonable future. She is in "pursuit" mode right now with this younger guy, trying to get him to get an apartment with her. AGAIN, this is a CHASE FOR HER. And she gets 1) her own place away from me, and 2) a young guy she wants to screw living in the SAME place as her. She wants what she wants.
She spent several text messages convincing her mother that she would NEVER go after this guy. And her mom says "ok I knew that but is it good to hear it FROM YOU". HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH. Bwahahahahahaha. She is KIDDING right?
But all the while she's looking up MANY apartments that are in the price range he gave her (which is NEXT TO NOTHING). Seriously, like 350-400 a month for him for a 2 bedroom apt. I mean she spent AN HOUR last night looking for places in that range for a 2 person split. Ok let's forget those ones for a minute, and focus on the 30 minutes she spent looking for his family business. I hope she enjoyed that because that's 30 less minutes tomorrow she will have had with our dog.
Instead of spending time with her dying dog last night, she was looking up apartments for her little young blood. She even came home later from work yesterday because she got a FB message form him which said he'd be at a certain place working. So she stayed at work an hour longer hoping to catch him.
As much as I have wanted this marriage to work, and as much as her banging other guys HURTS, the more I find out about her the absolutely positively more DISGUSTED I become with her.
Last edited by Quicksilver264; 07/22/1007:31 PM.
Me - 32 Her -30 Married - 7 Years Together - 9 Years No Kids 05/21 - Bomb 6/8 - Exposed 7/9 - Re-Exposed 06/11 - She Filed