As for FB stuff, it is all hidden. He made his "wall" private from the kids - and from me for awhile, until I demanded that it not be. We got into it over that - and then he made it un-private to me but I believe the kids are still blocked. Now, there's been nothing added to FB in awhile. So, he has nothing on there public to find. I believe it went from finding this people on FB to then getting #'s and email addresses. So, anything inappropriate that has occurred has been over email/text msg/cellphone, not FB itself.
So - you think 16S should actually tell Dad he knows about the text msg???? Or, is that something saved for after the weekend. The weekend counselor told me not to discuss R with H at all if it could be helped, before arriving. I'm sure H will blow up once he knows I told 16S. That is probably not a good thing. He'll use it as an excuse to back out.
The counselor said, as you did, Allen, that H will waiver all over the place about going - to expect it!
Honestly, I don't expect this next week to be pretty!
