You're right. He IS old enough and I actually feel more calmly now that I've told him. It's like, one of my worst fears was having to tell the kids. Well, the 2 boys are the ones I worried about the most and 1 already understands. I'm more concerned about 14S. Do I now tell him or wait until after the weekend? He's not your typical 14yr old boy: he is borderline Aspergers, which is a form of Autism, and has had issues with depression. I'm so afraid of this all affecting him most of all.
18 yr old D I will tell when she gets back home. Don't want to tell her while she is out of town.
