One is that she wanted to get those kids out of me and make me a "babys daddy". Once the kids where there, no reason to be my wife anymore.
DLS,
No offense, but you sound a bit bitter. I am in no position to judge you, but in the past I read comments from you where you absolutely recommended dating before the divorce was final, and I wondered how much of your bitterness (etc) is ego-driven?
Life throws things at you. Don't let it make you a bitter person. Let it make you a better person
I'm not bitter. Perhaps some of my earlier posts were ego driven. Still I know while it may not sound nice, if you are left all alone in a situation and the spouse is doing their own thing, perhaps after a certain amount of time dating will help to maintain yourself. Dating is really going to help your confidence.
I'm not a fan of being forced to be celibate because of my spouses choices.
