Ok so I told him I am not going to help him obtain any and all information he needs to build his case. He is perfectly able to gather what he needs himself.
His response - he will have the judge order me to surrender it then.
I also voiced my opinion that he should not be involving S10 in this matter, to which he responded "Don't tell me I can't talk to my son. This is what he wants. He wants to live with me so he can keep going to Fairmont (the old school)." He also said he is not involving S10 (hah!), yet unlike me where I have totally excluded him.
I have been completely painted as the "mean and bad" parent now. I am so STRESSSSSSSSED over this and I don't know WTF to do
Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell