Been about a month since my last post here, but as some of you might know from my post over in the alt, XH has threatened to take me to court to seek full custody of S10 because S10 doesn't want to change schools.

I am very upset about this right now. S10 should not be involved in this, it should be kept between XH and me....BUT my mom told me XH called last night while I was at school (taking phlebotomy classes) wanting to speak with S10. S10 revealed to me that his father asked if I had spoken to him about going to the new school, he said I had, then XH asked if S10 was ok with that, to which he of course answered no.

So, I just received a text from XH about 10 mins ago, asking if he could have a copy of S10's last report card.....

I am guessing he wants it so that he can submit to his ATTY for his case. Question is .... do I give it to him?

I will tell you all right now....I DO NOT BELIEVE I SHOULD HELP HIM GATHER WHAT HE NEEDS. I FEEL HE SHOULD GO ABOUT GETTING IT HIMSELF.

But since I'm obviously emotional about this, how do I kindly tell him "F OFF, get it yourself!"...lol...in a nice way?

Thanks for listening.

Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell