Stuck and don't know how to proceed

[sportsfan]

Hi all. Been lurking a bit catching up on some threads. Reading on Penny Tupy's site. Interesting.

Question: How is WAH supposed to miss me when we have been separated for two years and we only see each other about once a week? When he left, we were not happy at all. So much has happened since then and since his A ended that I know things would be different. We get along so well and have so much fun when we are together that I don't understand why he won't take things a step further. I know there is not an OW in the picture at this time.

If I pull away, then he pulls away. That has been a cheeseless tunnel for me for the last several years.

Any ideas on what to do? Thanks all and best wishes!