How To Tell The Kids

[Fightingforher]

Dan,

I'm glad to hear your doing well. GAL is the best thing I did too. I see a light at the end of my tunnel and I hope yours comes soon. I know that our moods are up and down right now but my most supportive friends convinced me that things happen for a reason.

Our W's chose a different path to walk down and as much as we miss them it will work out in the end. I haven't gotten to that point to start dating but when I do I know I’ll be ready mentally.

I've realized how unhealthy my W is right now. For her to actually start dating shows me that she needs OM as a coping mechanism to get through this. So many people have given me such great advice. Bottom line is we can’t be with someone who doesn’t want to be with us. It’s made my decision an easy one, now it’s time to start healing and moving forward.