I watch my sitch and see the role reversals. Pre-bomb, she wanted to repair the R, I didn't pay attention; post bomb, I wanted to repair, she didn't; the things I did in the past which she complained about she is now doing. I think the final loop that closes is the role reversal after the split up. I'm not sure how often the WAS returns only to be rejected by the previously LBS but I imagine you don't see a lot of it because they probably don't come back to post it here
steady, this is my sitch to a tee.
If my W decided to come back I would have a very difficult decision to make. As of right now she hasn't shown me any changes to herself. Funny how we want them to notice our changes ay first. Now her moves and actions are the ones I'm trying to notice change.
Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12 Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life! “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."
