Husband left me 3 months pregnant... (continued)

[newmama]

told H that I still want the same things for S that he and I always dreamt about and just bc H and I are not together doesn't mean I don't plan the same for S and said maybe I will find someone else to share my family and life w. H got tears in his eyes.

BD, I finally started to think this I think in March when stbxh told me he did want to D. I realized that I could still do the things with S that I wanted to, just alone....and then one day share with someone else. I am pleased you are realizing this now. CHANCES ARE IT WILL BE WITH YOUR H! But being strong enough to see that you can be independent is good!

And you know something? Truthfully I am having fun with S doing the things I want. I do them sometimes with friends though so I am not lonely!