"I have a problem with teaching DD that it's OK to be this type of a family so that she grows up thinking divorced families are normal and fine."

I have had this thought many times. But I think we can send a message that although divorce was not what we wanted, we can pick ourselves up, make do with what we have, and be a family. I guess I agree with wii...I am in acceptance though but it could be due to the fact that I am dating. Maybe when I am not dating I will revert to your thoughts.

Last edited by newmama; 07/22/10 04:52 PM.

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004