Near WAW with EA - almost textbook sich

[doing my best]

Wisdom from my brother-in-law....it somehow fits with everyone's advice and DBing....

The less words the better, the less explanation the better. Actions are much less open to interpretation than words are. Throw a word out there and the listeners mind can go crazy with thoughts about what it means. Actions and behaviors are more direct and observable.

To throw out a little Zen. The finger points at the moon. It's a reminder that the finger is not the moon, just a pointer. Words are often just a pointer, they are descriptive, they lead the listener, but they can never be the moon, they can only go so far. Whereas actions more resemble the actual moon itself and feel more concrete to whoever is watching.

Summarizes "graceful actions" or doing without trying.