My D is OK, although I do get occasional sad questions about why our family doesn't live together. I am also in the process of getting ready to move and this seems to worry her. I have told her that in our new house, she can have a room the color she wants.

I also notice that she tries to get us together. It breaks my heart.

I need to have some conversations with her about my dating.

I think she does have some abandonment issues.


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D