BUTTON PUSHING MID-LIFER

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Trusting, I would not assume that your X did this to get to you. I would gently point out that you are mind-reading here. Perhaps you are taking his actions more personally than they warrant.

It's probably just about him and his goofy immature way of trying to relate to her.

You are right to ignore.

When my X was more normal, he would have described that sort of action as the sort of thing that immature people do when they are trying to find themselves.