Don't worry about the trial too much, your L will be with you. To them it's a routine as well as for the judges. Besides she's probably feeling the same anxiety as you if not worse.
Hang in there...things will start to get better when the legal crap is over.
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again
