Not sure it's just a case of a dynamic needing to be broken. That again assumes the woman has a sexual side ready and waiting as soon as the dynamic is broken through. The question is, if you try to break the dynamic, is there a sexual side to her?
Again, it's about like asking when am I going to be able to break through the dynamic of withholding my homosexuality? Uh, there's nothing there to break through to. The example helps me understand what some LD or ZD people are going through. If the world suddenly consisted only of men, and it was suddenly the norm for them to be married to each other, I'd be completely nonsexual, and spending my fantasy hours drawing sketches of mythical creatures I'd call "women". And I'm sure my male partner would send me to therapy for hours of useless counseling.
