My sister is a firm believer in "where there's smoke, there's fire." So I've been wondering if there's an OM. And then I wonder if it really matters to me now. I'm letting her go, dropping the rope entirely and walking away. I'll listen to her, validate what she says, and take care of my daughters.
Eventually we'll be in our own separate places, coparenting our 2 DDs. But thinking she'll come to her senses is childish and immature.