Wii, let me know if you find any of those books to be helpful. I've gotten so many books on various peep's recommendations but none really clicked with me. They're all good books, mostly common sense stuff with lots of theory but very little in terms of concrete steps or examples to help you change your behavior.
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again