tired of this

[LSG]

A_goodman,

I hated the elephant in the room at my counseling session, and I finally exposed it at my 5th session. It did not do much for the MCing sessions. We quit going because W wanted the counseling for the D not the M.

You will have to "stand up" to W and do what is right for you. If she will get mad at you for getting help, then it is too bad for her. You need to do what you are doing for you too.

You have to decide to split or not. Only you can make that decision.

You still seemed scared of your W.