Change is good LSG. Any change. Keep doing what you are doing. Keeping out of confrontations is great! I have read on here a lot that if she wants to fight, you agree with her or validate and show empathy. You can't fight with someone who won't fight.

I've also read that anger from WAS can be good. And you not fearing it is good. Maybe she realizes that she is losing control to you. Nice job....

I stayed out all night on Tuesday and didn't tell W anything about it. We only had 2 sentences with each other last night, which is fine with me. I think my W is starting to understand that she is losing control too.

You are doing great!