As a dude...if he has not been through this process then he is going to think...."This is one crazy biatch".
Either way, you'll be able to DB his butt right away. I have often thought about this in my sitch...my next R (be it with W or not)...will be very very different. The one thing I am sure of is this...If I hear something along the line of "I need to find myself" - well I'm packing my sh*t and leaving!
On a serious note, I hope you enjoy the book. It is a very good read. Very good. It soooo helped me understand everything that I went thru when the bomb was initially dropped.
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans