[ Truth Puppy - At this point I am happy with HER crumbs. Seriously. And JUST ANYTHING feels good.
I still believe that with my WAW, I need to somehow balance being a friend etc with letting her go. Whenever I attempt to do otherwise, she sees it as me only wanting to be involved with her if it's on my terms - if there is sex involved etc. I somehow need to make her feel that I love, like and want her - all of her. But...magically at the same time let her feel like I have let her go as my wife. Only then will I have any hope of her wanting to be my wife.
I've mentioned before that I don't think every wife that wants to leave a marriage is a WAW and should be treated as such. I read as much of this thread as I could but not all, so please forgive me if I got something wrong here. If it's correct that she walked away from her children as well as you, (not once, but twice?) there could be something more wrong with her than with your R and until she gets that straightened out, it may be impossible to repair the relationship. Leaving the children suggests a detachment much more severe than just loosing a connection with her husband for the usual reasons that a WAW loses her connection with her H.
