If it were me, I'd love the chance to start dating her, but ONLY if she'd ended it with OM. And I would ONLY use as proof of that a full no-contact/transparency system, NOT her word for it.
But that's just me.
Oh, I am with you. Just trying to figure out how to implement that under these conditions or if I even want to bother with this M at all anymore.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-