I called her again and said I don't want to wait days. She could damage soemthing in that time. I got "you're being an a$$hole" My response "I don't want to look after your dog and don't want people coming to look at her ar my house". "It's my house too". All I said was "I don't want to get into that now".
She said "I'll get her now then". My response: "thank you". I can't see any of this helping to DB in any way, but at least I know I stood up for myself and she get a tiny dose of reality.
