Conversation lasted less than 2 minutes. She of course, said "Oh Great! - You won't admit it, but this is beause of our conversation yesterday". I calmly said, it's been bothering me for a while, but I just can't have her their anymore.
WAW said "fine! Give me a couple days. I need to put an ad in the paper". I said "ok" and "thank you" and ended the call.
Wow.....I have tiny little balls! I know it pissed her off, and might even upset my D18 a little. But, I really don't want the dog there, and it's no longer my responsibility - especially after yesterday.
Yes YOU do have tiny balls, so afraid to lose her you supplicate her with gifts, trips, dinners, and now dog watching.
You were told all of this in the beginning by several of us but didn't want to listen, you wanted to continue being "YOU" hoping she would love "YOU" again but the person "YOU" are isn't someone she can love again in the way that you want.
Now if YOU were to grow some bigger balls, well then maybe it might make a difference but at this point with so much time passed in your situation, who knows what can happen, there are no guarantees in any of the situations on these forums.
Methinks let her go, no more dinners on sunday, have a nice life, it wasn't working out, not really what I'm looking for anymore, you want someone who wants you and she isn't it so maybe it's time to start dating?
Up to you.
Either that or quit your job and run a professional dog watching/babysitting service. If it's profitable let us know ;-)
